What should I do if I am planning to get pregnant?
preparation for a holistic pregnancy and childbirth begins before you
become pregnant. Your own good health helps your baby's health. And
when you and the baby are healthy, you have more choices in childbirth.
- Schedule a preconception counseling appointment
with your current healthcare provider to discuss your pregnancy plans.
This can help you identify your health strengths, as well as any family
history or health problems that might affect pregnancy. Your healthcare
provider will be interested to learn about your work or hobbies to help
you identify whether you are at risk for developing certain viruses or
infections. This appointment gives you a chance to discuss any health
conditions, such as diabetes, asthma, or high blood pressure, with your
healthcare provider. Try to work with your provider to get any chronic
health conditions under as much control as possible before you become
pregnant. (Note: these issues can also be discussed during your routine
- Try to achieve a normal weight for your height. (Click for a Body Mass Index chart that can help you determine if you are currently at, above, or below normal weight.)
If you do not already have a regular exercise routine, this is the time
to start. Most women recognize the physical benefits of exercise, but
might not realize that exercise also helps manage stress and promotes
good mental health. You may consider a variety of exercise programs,
depending on your interest, including walking, running, swimming, or
biking. Group classes, such as yoga , Pilates, or aerobics, are also a
To be most effective in maintaining good health, you should exercise four to five times per week, for at least 30 minutes,
but if you have not exercised before, you should build up to this level
gradually. For example, if you start walking, begin by walking about 10
minutes each time you go out, and then increase this by 5-10 minutes
each week. A good goal is four miles four times per week. There are
also specific exercises for pregnancy, including pelvic muscle
exercises (sometimes called Kegel exercises), pelvic rocking, and
squatting. Some books and websites that discuss these are listed under
Additional Readings at the bottom of this topic.
is very important while you are trying to become pregnant. A balanced,
healthy diet should include sources of protein (such as meat, cheese,
dried beans), whole grains, vegetables and fruits, and sources of
calcium (such as milk or other dairy products). Getting enough folic
acid in your diet can prevent a neural tube defect. Folic acid can be
found in green vegetables and whole grains, but because the amount
needed to prevent birth defects is fairly high, you should take a
vitamin supplement that contains 400 micrograms of folic acid. The
neural tube develops before many women realize that they are pregnant,
so most doctors and midwives recommend that all women take a folic acid
supplement even before they become pregnant. The March of Dimes has more information about folic acid and neural tube defects on its website.
In general, fresh whole foods
are preferable to highly processed foods, and you might want to
consider organic foods when available, especially when choosing fresh
fruits and vegetables. Commercially grown grapes, strawberries,
cherries, peaches, apples, apricots, spinach, bell peppers, celery,
green beans, cucumbers, and cantaloupe are among the foods most highly
sprayed with pesticides and herbicides, so choosing organically grown
alternatives is especially beneficial for these products. You can find
more details about healthy eating before and during pregnancy at the U.S. Government's Women's Health site , as well as in some of the references under Additional Readings.
- Avoid cigarettes, alcohol, and drugs. Most
women know that there are harmful to a developing baby, but they should
also be avoided when trying to become pregnant. These habits are hard
to break, but having a baby is often very good motivation. If you think
you might have difficulty, check with your insurance company to see if
they sponsor or pay for programs to help you quit. While it is most
beneficial to stop smoking altogether, there is benefit in reducing the
total number of cigarettes you smoke.
- Check prescription medicines,
over-the-counter medicines, supplements, or herbal preparations as
these can also harm a developing baby. Review any medications,
supplements, or herbs that you take with a doctor, midwife, or
pharmacist. Sometimes, it is necessary to continue taking medications,
such as asthma medications, to protect your own health. Sometimes, you
can substitute safer medications during the pre-pregnancy and pregnancy
periods. There are some medications, however, that should not be taken
at all during pregnancy or while trying to become pregnant. If you take
medications for a chronic health condition, tell your healthcare
provider that you want to become pregnant, so that he or she can help
you choose medications that are safest during pregnancy.
- Avoid environmental toxins while you are trying to become pregnant. These are discussed in more detail in the next section.
A final note on pregnancy preparation: make plans for emotional support.
While the birth of a child is generally a happy, anticipated event, it
is also stressful. You might worry about how you or your partner will
care for a child, what kind of parents you will be, how your other
children will react to the new baby, or if you can afford a child. You
might recognize how the birth of a child means a loss of control over
your body and your time. You might plan to work part-time, to stay at
home with your child, or to balance full-time work
with the care of your child. All of these are stressful, and it is
helpful to have frank discussions with your partner about what both of
you think you will need from each other, from other family members, and
from friends. If handling stress is difficult for you or if you have
had a history of depression, this might be a good time to seek therapy
with a goal of identifying ways to manage stress.
If you are planning to be a single parent, it is especially important to identify supportive family and friends.
who is having her first baby, identified earlier in her pregnancy that
she could count on her sister Tina, who has two children, for emotional
support. Tina consistently assured Carrie that she would be a great mom
and that she would be there to help.
What should I do if I am already pregnant?
You have embarked on a rewarding and growth-filled journey, but it will
be accompanied by some hard work. Feelings of ambivalence or worry
might accompany feelings of happiness. All are normal.
haven't already, please read the section above on preparing for
pregnancy. The information about nutrition, exercise, medications,
drugs and alcohol, and personal support are even more important now
that you are pregnant.
Many people assume that prenatal care is
what you get at your appointments with your midwife or physician, and
certainly, this care is important. (Click for a schedule of prenatal visits . See also a discussion of many of the tests offered during pregnancy.)
The most beneficial prenatal care will be the care that you give yourself and your baby everyday.
Although the causes of a few pregnancy complications are unknown, and a
few cannot be controlled, many complications can be avoided or
minimized by taking good care of yourself. By staying low-risk and
healthy, you maximize your options for childbirth.
- Good nutrition
is essential for a healthy pregnancy and for the growth of the baby.
Other than a folic acid supplement of 400 micrograms, most women can
get their required nutrients from carefully chosen food and do not need
to take vitamins. However, if you are anemic, your midwife or doctor
may recommend an iron supplement. Some pregnant women do have a
difficult time obtaining enough calcium, iron, protein, and green leafy
Other important nutrients include
essential fatty acids (especially Omega 3 fatty acids) and choline,
both of which help the baby's developing brain and nervous system. If
these nutrients are in short supply in your diet, you may wish to add a
supplement. Click for sources of key nutrients .
More resources about nutrition can be found under Additional Readings.
You might need to make adjustments if you have significant nausea or
vomiting in your pregnancy.
- Weight gain is expected during pregnancy, but the amount of weight you gain is important. Check a BMI calculator
and determine whether you are of normal weight or over or underweight.
If you have started out your pregnancy at a normal weight, plan to gain
between 25 and 35 pounds. If you are overweight, plan to gain about 15
pounds. If you were underweight, plan to gain between 28 and 40 pounds.
The amount of extra food a pregnant woman needs is not large. If you
are of average weight and are moderately active, you need the same
amount of calories in your first trimester as you did before you were
pregnant. In your second trimester, you need 350 calories more a day;
and in your third trimester, only 500 extra calories are needed per
day. (Three hundred calories is the equivalent of three glasses of
non-fat milk or a peanut butter sandwich.)
- Exercising and
eating well can help keep your blood sugar in a normal range and can
help you avoid having a very large baby. Exercise also helps you build
strength and endurance, which are important for coping with labor.
Resources about exercise are listed under Additional Readings.
- It is also important to pay attention to your emotional health
during pregnancy. Stress is very common in our society; and, women
often experience additional worry and fear during pregnancy. You might
find that you worry about the baby, becoming a mother, finances, the
change in your family, or many other things. Our system of healthcare,
which often focuses on problems, may add to these worries with the
various screening tests offered in pregnancy. It is a good idea to find
a stress-reduction technique that you like and start practicing early
in your pregnancy. Some good options include guided imagery ,
breathwork , meditation , or yoga with an instructor who is experienced
in teaching pregnant woman. See the Mind-Body Therapies topic for more
information on these and other helpful therapies and practices. A great
book on self-care and growth by Jennifer Louden is included below under
- You should avoid most environmental toxins during pregnancy. A brief list of things to avoid is included below:
gloves when gardening, do not consume raw meat products, have someone
else change a cat litter box if you have one, and wash your hands after
playing with your cat.
Lysteria: Avoid unpasteurized milk.
Mercury: Avoid tuna and other large fish.
Hot tubs/saunas: Excessive heat can affect the developing baby's central nervous system.
Alcohol: No amount of alcohol is safe during pregnancy and can contribute to fetal alcohol syndrome.
Tobacco use can affect the baby's growth and adversely affect your
blood pressure. Even cutting back helps, if you are unable to stop
Most medications: Discuss any medications, supplements, and herbs that you take with your health care provider to discuss safe alternatives.
Regular handwashing is important for everyone, but especially important
if you work with young children (to help prevent exposure to Fifth's
disease, cytomegalovirus, chicken pox, and rubella).
Switch to the least toxic products you can find. Wear gloves, keep the
area well ventilated, and wash your hands when you are finished.
Some jobs present specific risks to the developing baby. For example,
you might be exposed to lead or other chemicals. Discuss your work with
your care provider to help identify any potential risks. You can also
ask your employer for the Material Safety Data Sheet for any substances
that you might be exposed to at work, and bring a copy of this to your
Carrie discovered she was pregnant, she realized that she should
probably make several changes to promote her health and her baby's
health. She had been smoking a few cigarettes a week when out with
friends and didn't have any difficulty stopping. Her diet was more
challenging. Carrie tried to change her diet "overnight," but often
felt she had slipped back into old habits. One of her coworkers
suggested that she was being too hard on herself, and she suggested
that Carrie just make one change per week. Carrie tried this and had a
much easier time. The first week, she increased her intake of high
calcium foods. The second week, she started packing fresh vegetables to
supplement her lunch and have as snacks. The third week, she started
cutting back on soda and drinking more water. She found these gradual
changes much easier to stick with.
found herself very stressed with her move to the new town. She was busy
with the packing and unpacking, but once that was finished, fatigue set
in, and she began to miss her family and friends. Her family had also
helped babysit her older child when she and Marcus went out, and she
missed their time alone together. Marcus noted one evening that Lorinda
seemed especially irritable, and, to both their surprise, Lorinda began
to cry. Marcus was supportive, but unsure how to help her. Lorinda's
new midwife suggested that Lorinda attend a weekly mother's group, and
helped her find one close to her home. Lorinda found that being able to
talk over her feelings with her midwife and other women helped her sort
them out. Lorinda also asked Marcus to take their older child for a
30-minute walk each evening, and Lorinda used this time to meditate.
The combination of these changes helped Lorinda cope more effectively
with her stress.
How can I make myself more comfortable?
the suggestions above on eating a balanced healthy diet, avoiding
excessive weight gain, and exercising. These will help you stay healthy
and able to cope with the increased demands that pregnancy places on
your body and immune system. It is also important to practice stress
reduction techniques on a regular basis.
Here are some suggestions for specific discomforts:
Try to eat small, frequent meals. Small bites of crackers, hard candy,
sips of juice or soda may help. Consider acupressure bands (wristbands)
or acupuncture .
- Back pain.
Pay careful attention to your posture when standing, sitting, driving,
or working. Don't stand with your weight on one foot and avoid crossing
your legs when sitting. Avoid lifting more than 20 to 25 pounds, and be
especially careful when lifting: bend your knees, hold the object close
to your body, and use the muscles in your legs to assist you in
lifting. If you spend a lot of time standing, consider standing with
one foot up on a three- or four-inch block, with your weight evenly
balanced on both legs.
Rather than lifting your older
children, have them climb up next to you to sit down, and encourage
them to climb into their car seat on their own. (We know this is hard, especially
for strong-willed toddlers who might not want to go somewhere in the
car right now.) Try not to hold or carry a child balanced on one hip.
packs or hot packs may provide some relief, as may spending some time
in a knee-chest position. Consider yoga or prenatal exercise classes, acupuncture, massage, physical therapy, or chiropractic
care. Not all providers are used to caring for pregnant women; be sure
to ask about this when making appointments, and ask for referrals if
- Fatigue. Prioritize
activities. Consider brief periods of rest or a nap during the day (but
don't make this too long or you might have difficulty sleeping at
night). Ask for help from others. You might find that meditation or
exercise is rejuvenating. Consider complementary therapies, such as Reiki .
- Hemorrhoids or constipation.
Make sure you are getting 10 to 12 glasses of water or other
non-caffeinated liquid each day. Warm water especially helps stimulate
the bowels. Your diet should include fresh fruits and vegetables and
whole grains. Daily exercise also helps. Witch hazel compresses may be
soothing for hemorrhoids.
- Edema (swelling). Rest with legs elevated periodically during the day. Consider massage, especially leg and foot massage.
Consider eating several small meals instead of three large ones. After
eating, remain upright for about 45 minutes. You might identify some
foods, such as foods high in fat, which make heartburn worse - pay
attention to your body's message and avoid them!
- Mood swings. Make sure you are getting enough rest. Stress reduction practices, such as meditation or breathwork, might be helpful, as might complementary therapies, such as massage or Reiki.
Of course, it is also helpful to talk about your concerns with your
partner, another supportive friend or family member, or a mental health
- Carpal tunnel. Carpal
tunnel may cause tingling in your fingers or pain in your wrists and
hands, and is caused by swelling tissue in your wrists putting pressure
on the carpal nerve. You can do hand and finger massage yourself to
increase blood flow to your hands and reduce the swelling. You can also
elevate your arms above your head. Physical therapy and acupuncture have also been shown to be effective.
Essential Exercises for the Childbearing Year, 4th ed. Elizabeth Noble. 2003. You can read about this book online .
Exercises to ease pregnancy aches and prepare you for childbirth. BabyCenter .
Kegel Exercises. Information available at Childbirth.org
Nutrition and Pegnancy: A Complete Guide from Preconception to Postdelivery. Judith E. Brown and Howard N. Jacobson. 1998.
What to Eat While Pregnant. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
Key nutrients during pregnancy.
The Woman's Comfort Book: A Self-Nurturing Guide for Restoring Balance in Your Life. Jennifer Louden. 2005. An excerpt from this book can be found online .
Schedule of prenatal care .